Fadi Zaghmout

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1. 

   ضرّاب السخن

   August 19, 2008

   انتي مش انخطبتي و تنيّلتي على عينك؟ لشو رايحة تشّلفي مع واحد لحالكم بشقة فاضية؟بعدين اخوكي كيف عرف انّك رايحة هناك؟و الهبيلة اللي معك ما عرف يسكّر الباب وراه؟ و اللا بس شاطر يشدّك و تشدّيه؟ بعدين بأحلامك انّو كان يحاول يحميكي كان عالأكيد بدّو يشلّف بس اجت في الرصاصة يا حرام مات قبل ما يخلعك طب اسمعي تعالي انا بتوصّى فيكي و بدبّر اخوكي.اذا مدايقك كتير غشاء البكارة، انا اولا فيهيعني بتقدري تختصري 90% من كتاباتك بإنك وحدة بكل بساطة ……………….. ممحونة!

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   Qwaider قويدر

   August 20, 2008

   بصراحة! من اجمل العادات التي تقدّسها فتيات بلادنا و غالبية الشباب هو احتفاظهم بكرامتهم و شرفهم. شيء جميل و مفقود في هذا الزمان للأسف.غشاء البكارة ليس شرف للأخ او الأب لوحدهم، انّما هو شيء ثمين و نادر و من اغلى ما تملكه كل فتاة في هذه الدنيا!كثيرا ما سمعت من فتيات انّهم يتمنّين لو انّهن انتظرن للشخص المناسب ليكون له شرف فض بكارتهن. بدلا من الشاب التافه اللذي حظي بشرف لا يستحقّه. مع انّه و في “لحظة تهوّر” كان يبدو انّه افضل رجال الأرض.الشرف نعمة! و لا يقدّرها الا من يستحقّها. و لن تجدي شخص يستحقّها يسنهين بإهدارها.

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3. 

   Anonymous

   August 20, 2008

   انا حاس فيكي يا هيا.وانا حاس لانو انا مريت بنفس هاي المرحله مع صاحبتي ,بس للاسف هيا اللي ماتت مش انا.عشان هيك اذا بصلك بنيك عرضك

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   Anonymous

   August 20, 2008

   انا حاس فيكي يا هيا.وانا حاس لانو انا مريت بنفس هاي المرحله مع صاحبتي ,بس للاسف هيا اللي ماتت مش انا.عشان هيك اذا بصلك بنيك عرضك

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5. 

   قرد يزمك

   August 20, 2008

   انا حاس فيكي يا هيا.وانا حاس لانو انا مريت بنفس هاي المرحله مع صاحبتي ,بس للاسف هيا اللي ماتت مش انا.عشان هيك اذا بصلك بنيك عرضك

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6. 

   Devil's Mind

   August 20, 2008

   So Haya lives after all… Uh, well, the hero never dies in the movie (or the story in our case)!Ok, serious now, The story is a bit over dramatic, but it does convey its point. The concept of virginity does create unnecessary drama. and make people’s lives unnecessarily overcomplicated. And the first paragraph does remind me so much of an < HREF="http://zeidspex.blogspot.com/2006/04/opinion-if-i-were-girl.html" REL="nofollow">old post<> I have once made.

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7. 

   Anonymous

   August 20, 2008

   Does this also aply to homosexual anal intercourse

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8. 

   Moey

   August 20, 2008

   Haya, you will survive.It is fine. it could have been worse no?at least, you had what you want and you were not forced to do it with someone else.

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9. 

   The Observer

   August 20, 2008

   قويدر, البنت انجرفت وراء مشاعره, حبها كان قوي جدا لدرجة التغاضي عن بعض قيمه. هيا كانت في السرير مع صديقها و لكنها كانت ما تزال عذراء. عذراء في التعريف العام عندنا الذي هو وجود غشاء البكارة. انها تريد فضه الان لانه السبب في موت سعادتهاDM, she lives, but parallized 😦Moey, but what she wanted has been taken away of her. She lost her lover and her body movement. All what she has now is her memories.

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10. 

    Anonymous

    August 20, 2008

    The ladies in this country do not value “honor”, 75% of my classmates had either anal or/and oral sex because they are afraid to break their hymen in case they get married to a “traditional” or “religious” man.Are we all horny whores? well maybe, but i can tell you for sure that this society is double faced. and the men are wearing the crown of hypocrisy. In a statistic ( I don’t have the source, so you have to trust my word and your logic in it) the majority of men don’t mind marrying a woman who is not a virgin under the following condition:1- She is a foreigner (hey, it’s part of their “culture”)2- Is a widow or a divorce So it is not a matter of the actual existence of the hymen, it’s the mere idea that an arabic girl can be an audacious being who refutes the standards of this society and follows her own rules and values.And of course, this being is not a good enough wife or mother, the whore!

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11. 

    A1

    August 20, 2008

    What’s the percentage we are talking about regarding “Men wearing a crown of Hypicrosy”…trust me it’s alot..Hypicrosy is always there..and us living in such a crappy society will have to accept it..though it’s very irritating

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12. 

    Fawzi

    August 20, 2008

    This reminded me of why I read your blog. The only post – and excuse my bluntness here – that’s worth reading in a while.

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13. 

    Qwaider

    August 20, 2008

    I hope people who say that “women do not value honor” speak for themselves! And such exaggerations as saying that “75% had anal or whatever” is bullshit based on a very narraw <>personal<> view of someone who wants to legitimze something by saying “hey look, everyone does it”, but it still can’t be generalized. In fact, I haven’t met a single woman, who is “bint nas” who didn’t value <>her honor<> and protect it with her life because it meant everything to her. It means life itself. Not because of her family or anything else, but because it’s their own piece of self dignity. They’re proud of their honor. It’s not a burden!Anyway, what happened to Haya’s fiance!?

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14. 

    Anonymous

    August 20, 2008

    Arabs have allways been outragous people ever since the days before the perofet mohammed , they would kill, envey, get drunk ,burn people, kill people unjustified bla bla bla.. all this happend untill god had enough and sent us the peofet mohammed , that showed us all the right wyas of life and dealing with our stugels , i mean even in gods eyes situations like this are justified as 100 wipps for unmaried (if ud survive them) and death for married. ussually untill just only just 100 years ago people would not kill but they would hit the BOY yes boy and take him back to his family rthen hit the girl in her own house even if they where rocking the house and breaking the squeking bed whilst having sex, and people knew that after a while of them being separetad they would come to there sences and let them feel the guelt, then they would arrange a marrige and make sure that there presious children and grand children dont become little hores and keep these values..

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15. 

    The Observer

    August 20, 2008

    anon, you are right, we are the masters of hypocrisy in Jordan! We do EVERYTHING in secrecy! Lets not call women enjoying their sexuality outside marriage boundaries whores. We don’t do that to me, do we?a1, I don’t think we have to accept it. We should poin it out and dish them from their own medicine. Don’t back down for someone playing the high morals, no one is better than the otherfawzi, fawzi ya fawzi :P, I am glad you liked this post, but can’t you give a positive comment without having it attached to negativity? :P. Well, I had a clear mind when I wrote this yesterday 🙂Qwaider, this is a different haya! lol. Actually Haya represents different women in different posts.I would say that there are a lot of “banat nas” who enjoy their sexuality outside marriage boundaries. We shouldn’t attach that to honor. Honor for me is more attached to honesty and transparency than a piece of meat.You can’t just attach honor to women sexuality and then claim that it isnt a burden. IT IS, and no, most of the women are not happy to carry it on their shoulders.anon, akhkhhhhh, that is a very narrow way to look at our history. You just fall into generalizing people based on their race and regardless of time and space. I would say that ignorance and intolerance has been there in every place and civilization. It was once fought wisely in Arabia but unfortunatly these days, we are losing the battle! BIG TIME!

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16. 

    Anonymous

    August 20, 2008

    It was used to ridicule the whole term. I apologize if someone found it offensive in any way.Ana bint nas kaman…

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17. 

    Devil's Mind

    August 21, 2008

    [OffTopic]The blog, gayjordan.blogspot.com, has been closed from public… I think it would be appropriate that you remove it from the blogroll[/OffTopic]

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18. 

    NasEr

    August 22, 2008

    oic ! so ur stories are fictional ? or based on true stories ?n i thought that other post was real,anyway,i see ur point ,i don’t agree that women’s honor is between their thighs !its so much more,n i don’t agree with Qwaider that its the most important thing she holds,its her brain wuts most important .however,girls should be real careful and know who they dealing with !i mean it takes a level of maturity to really decide that u wanna get involved with someone and not regret it later.

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19. 

    The Enchanted Fairy

    August 22, 2008

    talking back to Haya i say :Dear,just close your eyes and remember how it felt when you first talked ?!the butterflies when your shoulders were pressed to one another ?!The sacred tremble when he first touched you ?!the memories you had,the feelings and the moments you lived are more than enough to keep you surviving the cruel society…they label you with your vagina ?! let them have it dear…whenever ur sad,lonely or longing..just close your eyes and bring back the heartbeat 🙂PS : the first two commenters! can you be anymore vulgar than this ?! :S:SThumbs up observer

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20. 

    a different perspective

    August 22, 2008

    “I would say that there are a lot of “banat nas” who enjoy their sexuality outside marriage boundaries. We shouldn’t attach that to honor. Honor for me is more attached to honesty and transparency than a piece of meat.”I love it that you said that. I really enjoy reading your blog.

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21. 

    The Observer

    August 23, 2008

    DM, yes I should update my blogroll, there are many broken linksnaser, they are fictional and based on real stories/ life scenarios 🙂the enchanted fairy, good advice for haya :), thanksa different perspective, thank you, i am glad you do 🙂

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22. 

    Yazan

    August 25, 2008

    Our people are a bunch of hypocrites. I am ashamed to call myself an Arab man because Arab men are obsessed with the hymen; and I refuse to be included in that group.A thin film of skin does not determine who I am, and what my family is. And who claims otherwise is a pathetic scumbag who has no life. Honour crimes are disgusting and pathetic. It’s really funny how people put so much effort to keep their daughters virgins, but don’t give a fuck about their sons and if he is a macho who sleeps around with women. Hypocrisy at its best!

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23. 

    Walid

    August 29, 2008

    I do not like this script. I think it totally misses the point. The writer places tremendous importance of tearing the hymen as a symbol of the cause of all misfortunes sufferred by the girl.In my opinion, this does not reflect the (dynamics) of an honour killing. Girls are not killed not because of presence or absence of hymen (which by the way can easily be restorted surgically in many clinics in Amman, but because what family percieve to be a (bad reputation) attached to them due to her acts. A reputation that can only be cleaned by killing the girl. As such, in real life it is much more likely for the girl to be killed and her male lover to stay alive, opposite to what happens in the script.It is also very unlikely for male lover’s family to accept the girl, and is also very unlikely for girl’s family to abandon killing her even if she gets married again.In short, the script does not reflect reality of the cause it tries to challenge. It is a weak work that needs much improvement

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24. 

    العاب بنات

    February 11, 2009

    قصة خيالية مش جميلةاخوكي عرف ازاي و ازاي هيقتلو هو و يسيبك انت

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26. 

    انا باسم يا متناكة

    October 19, 2009

    دا درس يعلم كل شاب رايح ينيك بنت لازم يتاكد ان ما لها اخوات شباب او بكس امه يقفل الباب وراه

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27. 

    Anonymous

    October 24, 2009

    ابداع جنسي رهيب واغراء مرعب باستخدام الكلمات المثيره

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