Content is a treasure that never fades off

“Content is a treasure that never fades,” Waheed said one morning as we were discussing developers’ career paths. He quoted the old Arabic proverb — Al qana‘a kanzon la yafna — and for a moment the room felt philosophical.

Nadia laughed and pointed at me. “If that’s true, then Fadi is the treasure itself.” She was joking about how content I always seem at work.

Another day, I walked into the office singing — badly, but confidently — and smiling at everyone I passed. One of my coworkers shook her head and said, “I envy you. You’re always happy.”

The truth is more complicated. Yes, I’m happy in my life. I’ve learned to hold my worries lightly, to live in the moment, and to squeeze the most joy out of everyday things. But when it comes to my career, I haven’t always felt the same way.

For years, I was responsible for the user interface of all the web applications developed at my workplace. My position sat in a strange grey area between web design and web development. I had solid graphic skills and strong technical skills — HTML, DHTML, CSS — but I was the only UI designer in a team of more than thirty developers. There wasn’t much room to grow on either side. I felt stuck.

Eventually, the realization hit me: if I wanted career progress in that environment, I had to shift. The decision came late, after years of hesitation, but at the start of this year I finally began training to become a programmer while still handling my UI responsibilities.

It was overwhelming at first. My workload doubled, sometimes tripled. But strangely enough, I enjoyed the challenge. My coworkers kept wondering how I managed to stay upbeat when most people my age were thinking of leaving the tech field altogether. Maybe it’s because I had already reached a point where the old path felt like a dead end. Choosing a new one gave me energy.

Still, programming isn’t my passion. I made the move out of necessity, not love. I read Who Moved My Cheese? and realized exactly what had happened to me — my cheese had moved, and standing still wasn’t going to bring it back. So I moved.

Now, I’m in an open, uncertain place. I don’t have a clear long-term plan for my career. IT isn’t really my thing, and reading and blogging have opened my eyes to so many other interests: psychology, philosophy, journalism, communication, art, history. I want a job where I can interact more with people, not just code behind a screen. Maybe a master’s degree is the next step, but I’m still figuring out which field would truly speak to me — and how to choose without erasing the years of experience I’ve built.

In the meantime, I’m finding joy in the small things. We celebrate our Nescafe breaks like they’re holidays. We joke about lunch options like they’re major life decisions. Sometimes we gossip. Sometimes we have a deep, philosophical 15-minute pause from reality. Work becomes lighter when you decide to enjoy it, and even lighter when you genuinely like the people around you.

On the side, I’m excited about the idea of opening an ice-cream shop with my best friend. Why not? Life is full of surprising paths.

There is always something to look forward to. So I’m choosing to take whatever chances come my way — and to enjoy the present moment while they unfold.

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  1. KJ Avatar

    Psychology is interesting. I minored in it and it is a great experience, and definitely helps you when it comes to dealing with stupid people. LoL.We have different personalties and some people are more prone to stress than others. I can actually see from your writing you are happy but you are not genuinely happy nor fulfilled (hence the never-ending controversy). I am most likely wrong, but you said yourself you are not on the career path you’d like to be in.I read in a great book, Shadow of the Wind, that making money is easy, but making money in something worthwhile to devote your life doing is the hard part.

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  2. bambam Avatar

    i think i commented on this the last it was raised, hope programming is treating u lightly now what ur asking is a career path that involves some of things u listed, has to do with dealing with ppl. Taing into account to not waste ur experience in UI design and programming.well am not sure how ur company works, or if ur proficient enough in the lingo of ur choice (i think its been 6 months) But one thing to look forward to is project management:D In the SW companies they are lacking in proper project management and it relies alot more on psychology, communication than it does on programing in my opinion . since it requires utilizing the tools u have on a project to their maximum efficiency and being able to deal with stress and alleviating that stress from ur team members.Having background in the different parts of the software cycle also helps, so i think that would be one thing to look into. since i myself haven’t found a feasible way that i would like that involves psych, phil or even design.

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  3. bambam Avatar

    oops that last sentence was missing, so i can’t suggest something that is totally unrelated to IT

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  4. Devil's Mind Avatar

    Being happy is different than being content (satisfied). Being happy is important, but being discontent can be a good thing.I, for one, consider myself to be a happy person, while still being discontent about my achievement and the circumstances that I live in.I have learnt that even if I was living in hell, being happy is the wisest choice, and happiness to a certain extent is a choice. I choose to be happy, thats why I am so.Certain people have asked me: “Are you happy?”, and I answered yes, then they asked: “Does this mean that there is nothing in your current life you wish to be changed?”, and I answered: “Too many things I want to be changed.”… They found my answers to be self-contradicting… They do have a point that I am not 100% happy otherwise I wouldn’t want things to change, but that not the whole truth… I find satisfaction and happiness to be two distinct feelings.

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  5. The Observer Avatar

    KJ, Lol! I definatly need to study psychology in order to be able to deal with stupid people! Actually I am quite happy in my life, and while there are things that I would like to see it improved, I can always sit down and enjoy my current state with a drink or a friendly chat.Should be looking for the book 🙂Bambam, yeah, project management sounds like a good option, but I am bent on finding something totally unrelated. Maybe one day, and with my own business, I would be having the time and money to explore my other interests. It is never too late 🙂DM, you are totally right! We usually relate happiness and content togather. I feel the same as you said, happy but like to improve certain parts of my life. Well said (as you always do) 🙂

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  6. Hamza Avatar

    ice cream shop? Now that’s interesting. I wanna check it next time I am around.I agree with what Bambam said. I’d like to add that you could work in a company where transferring to the field you want would be easy. For example, if you work in the IT department of a museum, library, or history-oriented institution, then it’ll be easier to go to history, art or whatever field you want toif you really like your workplace, try to move and check other departments where you can find yourself. Of course this is as long as the management supports your decision and are willing to be of help. A master’s degree would definitely be an asset. but don’t do it in jordan. 🙂BTW, “Who moved my cheese?” is a very very great book. 🙂

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  7. The Observer Avatar

    Hey Hamza,You sure are welcome to check my ice cream shop when you come for a visit :).Yes, that is what I did this year, I moved to development. It is a bit challenging but it is okay, and I guess in 2-3 years I can move to other things, but the thing is that it is the IT in general that I am fed off. I would like to have something totally unrelated :). I will keep my eyes opened for any other opportunity 🙂

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